That you have never put your well being ahead of someone else's or that you have never asked someone to change a behavior or habit keeping in mind that it's a habit not a fundamental character flaw to compromise to make a relationship work. Being an SO means actually understanding what your SO does and why and keeping your junk out of it. I agreed with you, it is common aka normal. I threw him out because I overheard him going through his facebook with a friend and talking about who on his list he would fuck. A screenshot is not proof of anything because many guys bullshit each other constantly "she's so fine I'd spill a gallon before I would even take a break That's a no from me.
Is there any other scenario where the idea that someone doesn't know about it is the only moral excuse you can give to justify behaviour?
Is It Normal to Masturbate?
Sorry, you missed an important opportunity to practice what you're preaching here, you are justifying imposing your values on him. You seem to have missed that point. Ask Relationship Advice Other communities you may find helpful: I was simply explaining to him that regularly fantasizing about these girls is playing with fire. Nor do I agree with dehumanizing or objectifying women. Discussing it with friends is crossing a line. Inserting yourself into remarks not directed to you in some vain attempt to justify your own inabilities makes you look rather foolish, contrary to your own high opinion of yourself.